Self-leadership en action

  • Moving forward in two steps

    What about taking one thought, and moving it forward –actually forward on the floor- a few cm to a different location… like closer to the door, by the window, under the plant, in the bin, in the sink? How to? Step 1- take a piece of paper and write your…

  • Information versus expectations?

    Statistics are information, they are telling us that up to now for a sample or population questioned or observed we have seen that % of behaviours. Once we turn statistics into expectations, we create boxes, immobility and stillness. ARGGG get me out of that box!

  • Driven to madness by 95%

    “I told you this is not a nice behaviour, a third needs to be taken control of, a third will die, a third may make it more or less”…. ARGGG…. How normalising people to an average can ever bring a solution? Maybe 25% would have loved to be seen as…

  • The lady above

    She stopped me going upstairs to my flat. She is with her son waiting for the elevator. They moved a few months ago, and it’s our first meeting, straight to the point. “You’re the one leaving downstairs our apartment. I hope we are not making too much noise. I don’t…

  • Milk or letter box?

    The best part of my day is just that moment when I open the letter box, and then the milk box, you know this box underneath the letter box. Three, four seconds where everything can happen, and the milk box containing any kind of surprises. In the letter box, even…

  • Forgotten conversation?

    The page is no longer there, pen and pencils are no longer there, though you know you will have them sometimes in front of your mind, and no other choices than having again that forgotten conversation like a painful repeated conversation… Evolved conversations then?